Growing up.. and loving it!

Holy cow it's been a LONG time since I've posted. I guess life has just been crazy and wonderful. You don't get much time to yourself with a two year old!!! I love being a mommy!! I love my sweet Izzy! She's amazing. I love to see how she is exploring things, learning things, and doing new things. I love that she babbles all the time and expects you to know exactly what she said. She makes me laugh all the time! I love when we are being silly she says "you're funny"!! I love hearing her say "Mama" over and over! I love her hugs and kisses. She runs everywhere.. walking does not exist. Hahaha. I love that she is just Izzy! She's loving, sweet, caring, funny, huggable, kissable.. I can go on and on! I can't imagine my life without her! She is growing up so stinking fast. I can't believe she is 2. So crazy.
My mom bought a book for Izzy. It is about adoption but done through a childrens book. It's a baby a baby fox and Mama fox. It fits us to a tea!!! It's called God Found Us You. Best book ever. I can't read it without crying. I read it to Izzy for the first time on her Gotcha Day. I cried my way through it. She was so sweet. She would wipe my tears for me and hug my neck. I love that girl!!!!!!!!!
I'm so glad that God Found Us You Isabella Hope!

9 days and counting down!

We are counting down the days until we finalize our adoption. This is so exciting for us! I can't wait for her to be legally ours! I won't have to carry all of those documents in her diaper bag now saying that I only have legal custody and I can have her treated medically. (I know that's a small thing.. but it's a big thing to make sure I always have those documents on me.) I just can't wait!!! Hurry up October 26th!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Isabella is getting so big. She has 2 teeth now. Both of her bottom from teeth have come in. She's so cute when she smiles. My toothy little girl. I love her! She is crawling backwards. We tell her it's the wrong way but it get her to where she wants to go so she doesn't really care. She's getting ready to be more mobile.. yicks!!!! She loves her veggies. I love making them for her and watching her eat them. Makes me feel good. I made applesauce the other day and she hated it. She made the worse face ever. She never did that with any of the veggies I gave her. She ate them right up. But, she is getting better with it. She'll eat it now without making a face. Next week I think we'll try bananas. Maybe she'll like them. She's the funniest thing ever. She just laughs all the time. She talks and screams and then smiles. I love her smile. She just melts my heart with her sweet smile. I have bought her most of her winter wardrobe. If a baby can even have a wardrobe.. hehehe. We have the most wonderful consignment sale, the JBF sale (some of you might have heard of it). It is the Just Between Friends sale. I love it. It is gently used baby clothes. And I figure as fast as this little girl is growing I don't mind getting her clothes there. I found some awesome deals. I got her tons of clothes.. and lots of name brand clothes for a good price. I even found a lightweight stroller for Disney World! I was super excited about that. It weighs 8 pounds!!! YAY!! That will be perfect for the airport next summer. It was pretty much brand new!

Izzy made her first art project at daycare on Wednesday! It was super cute. It was her feet in white paint on a black piece of construction paper. They were little ghosts. They put googly eyes on the heal of her foot. It was so stinkin' cute!!! I loved it. It's on the refrigerator.. hehehe.

Well, that is what is going on in the wonderful world of Isabella! She is growing too fast. I am hoping I just get all of her important moments, and not so important moments, on camera! Lots and lots of pictures have and will be taken. I will share a few at the end of this post. I'm ready to go to court!!!! I can't wait for this! It will be smooth sailing from here.. YAY!!!! We are on the count down. Be praying for us!

Going fast

It's been a while since I've done this. Wow. I've been busy with Izzy and everything else. Isabella is growing up way to fast. I can't believe she is already 6 months old. Crazy! She is the sweetest little girl. I love her so much!!! She is now sitting up. She's so stinkin' cute! Life is wonderful now that we have her.

We had our last home visit and are all done with that part of the adoption. The attorney is going to file all of it in the courts and we should know our court date soon! Hopefully a week or so. She will be ours legally soon!!!!!! YAY!!! I can't wait for the day the adoption is finalized! It needs to hurry up and get here.

Well, I don't have much. I'm going to post some pics of Isabella. She is getting so big. I just can't get over it. I know I'll post more later when I have more time.

I'm a mommy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gosh, so much has happened since I last posted. It's been a wild and crazy ride. So, the no go with the other birth mom was for a reason. God had an amazing child waiting for us!!! We are now the proud parents or a sweet baby girl. She was born 10 days after we turned our application in to the agency. She was literally born for us. God is so awesome!! He closed a door (several) for us and opened one wide open! I'm so glad he did. I love my baby girl so much. Her name is Isabella Hope. (Yes, we changed her given name.) She's our dream come true. I'm a mommy!!!! I can't believe it. They were waiting on our paperwork (fingerprints, references, etc.) to process for them to give her to us. I can't believe it. She will be 3 months old on Wednesday. We got her on May 10th. It's crazy and wonderful!

Now here's how we got here. I'll try to give you the short version. We went to the adoption agency on May 9th for our board interview. This is where they approve or disapprove you to continue on with the agency and go on the "active list". Jeff and I were so super nervous about it. I knew we'd do fine, but we were still nervous. So we get in there. There were 5 people that were sitting around the table. So they introduced themselves and started asking us questions. We had brought our life book for them to show birth moms (this is our profile for the birth moms). It was a piece of cake! Everyone was so nice. So, we were done and they took us to another room to wait to see if we were approved or disapproved. Now that was nerve racking! The casework came in and talked to us for a while. Then she went out and got our approval letter. She said normally they mail them but they wanted to give ours to us. Then she said "... and I have something else to discuss with you all". Jeff and I were thinking that we forgot to sign something or forgot to fill out something. She said we have a baby available right now if you would like her. WHAT????? Holy moly!! We were both in shock. To be honest with you, I had pretty much no idea what she said after that. I was floored! A baby?? For us?? Seriously?? So, we asked her if we could talk about it. She said of course. (Oh, she did tell us that she was 2 months old.) So we went home. On the way home we called our parents. Everyone was freaking out. I called my boss and talked to her about it and Jeff did the same. We got home, talked about it but not really. I think Jeff and I knew our answer the minute we left the agency. It was so crazy. We called the lady at the agency like 3 hours later and asked if we could pick her up tomorrow. She was like.. you want her? Tomorrow? YEP!!! Jeff told me we needed her for Mother's day!! I got the most wonderful Mother's day gift EVER!! So she arranged for us to get her the next day. That day was incredible! Best day of my life!

So, it's been a crazy two weeks around here. After getting Isabella we were going to go and see Jeff's dad and introduce him to his newest granddaughter. We had planned to go up there that Tues. after getting her. We got a call from Jeff's 1/2 brother in a panic about their dad. He said he wasn't breathing and needed to check his sugar. He had called the ambulance and stuff already but wanted to know where the blood sugar meter was. Like we would know. So, Jeff and I through clothes in bags and headed up there (a 2+ hour drive). Anyway. Long story short, Jeff's dad passed away that day. He never got to see Izzy. It makes us sad that she won't get to know her PawPaw. But, she will hear all kinds of stories about him.

We've had some downs but a lot more ups! Izzy was born for a reason. She came into our lives just at the right time. I can't believe how quick our process went. I'm very glad. I think God knew just the right moment. God is amazing!!! We are so blessed to have Isabella in our lives. She's a joy. And it helps she sleeps all night. YAY for us! Hehehe. Well, I just had to share my wonderful news. I'm a mommy!!!!! Here are a few pictures of Isabella.

It's a no go

Well, we aren't getting the baby we thought we'd get. Honestly, I'm not really sure what all happened. Tesla called me almost every other day. She had made a decision to give us the baby. She really wanted someone that would love her baby and she told me she knew we would. Well, the attornys have been trying to have a meeting with her and her mom. Her mom wouldn't contact the attorneys. So, they told us that if we didn't hear anything be Wed. of last week that they strongly advise us not to pursue the adoption. I don't think Tesla's mom had a clue about how adoption works. I don't think she realized that Tesla was in charge of the whole thing. It's her baby, she's in charge. Her mom had told the birth father that he could be in the room when the baby was born and that he could see that baby. All kinds of strange things. Tesla had a VPO against this guy. When he gets abusive when you are pregnat.. probably not a good idea to let him come around. Anyway. I haven't heard from Tesla in a week now. I figured she might call and let me know what happened. I'm okay with her changing her mind. She has that right. And we didn't have any money or anything really invested in this baby. Just a few emotions that's all. It was hard to hear the news. Jeff and I were both looking forward to being parents in July. It's just not what God had in mind for us. We pretty much heard Him loud and clear in this situtation. He took us out as fast as we got in. I wish nothing but the best for Tesla. She is a super sweet girl with a lot of potential. I just hope she realizes that. Please continue to pray for her and her baby. I know she is a strong girl. I just hope things work out for her. Jeff and I talked about what if they come back later and want us to take the baby (before it's born and all). We just don't know. We'd have to really pray about it. You know, God answers our prayers even if it's in a way that we don't want. We didn't want to lose this baby, but He has a reason for us not getting this baby. He is still making our perfect baby. I couldn't be more excited about that. I know one day I will get to meet my baby. I can't wait.

Our agency called me last week and told me that our fingerprints are back. YAY! We can finally start our homestudy. We are going to an Enrich program this week. Not really sure what we will be doing but they said it would only take a few hours. We are still moving forward with our agency. They are so wonderful. Sweet, sweet people. I am working on our profile and trying to get it ready. I've been trying to find pictures of Jeff and I together. For some reason that has been hard for me. I guess because when we go on vacations or anywhere it's just us. I did go raid my mom's pics tonight. Got a few there. I'll see if my sis has any of us and maybe some with her kiddos. It is fun for me to put this together. So.. we are still marching on with our adoption. God is taking us where He wants us and we are following!

Update on potential baby situation

Things are progessing well. We are trying not to get our hopes really high just in case this all falls through. You never know. I have talked to our potential birth mom on the phone. We talked for about 3 hours. She's easy to talk to. She does talk a lot. She is just your typical 17 yr old. She told her attorney that she enjoyed talking to me and that she would like to meet us. So, I called her and asked her if she would like to go to dinner with Jeff and I.

We had planned to go to Zio's in Bricktown (it is a place in the city that has been built up (use to be industrial back in the day) and has lots of eatin' places and a water canal). So, Jeff and I get there and she is still up in the air about how she is getting here. Her mom did not allow her to use her car. Tesla doesn't have a car right now. Which that makes me mad because I see how really her mom isn't being supportive. So, she calls me and tells me her mom won't let her use the car and she can't get there. So, we ask her if there is somewhere close we can meet her. She was like.. well.. there's a Grandy's close, we can meet there. I'm thinking.. really.. Grandy's.. we wanted to take you to a nice dinner. But, if that is where she is comfortable.. so be it. So we get there and wait for her. She comes in with a friend. We were thinking she would come in with maybe her mom. Not so much. We talked. She is very easy to talk to. She gave Jeff and I ultrasound pictures of the baby. We talked about us and about her and stuff. She's just your typical 17 year old. She asked me if I wanted to feel the baby move. I hesitated, but did. Jeff did also. She asked me if I wanted to come to her birthing classes with her. She said she would find out when they are and let me know. She wants us in the room when she has the baby. Jeff did ask her if her mom and family was supportive of her doing this. She hestitated, there was a long pause and she said yes. So, we are going to talk to the attorney about it. She asked us if we were comfortable with her. We were. We asked the same. She said she was really comfortable with us. She's nothing like I had pictured. I figured with her being Native American she might have a little darker skin. We were told she is full blood. She is about as white as me (and ya'll know that's pretty darn white). She had her lip pierced and tongue pierced. Like I've said, she's just your typical, clueless 17 year old. Jeff and I are going to call the attorney Monday and ask a few questions. They are going to talk to her about her wanting a baby shower. We talked to our attorney about that already. She said that is their job, they head off things like that and tell her it's not gonna happen. We think she is a little confused about the process and stuff, so we want to make sure she understands how it all works and all that good stuff. But, other than that, things went well last night. I will let you all know how it progresses. Thank you all so much for thinking about us and praying for us. Please continue to pray about this.

It's all happened so fast. We are still waiting for our homestudy to be done. ACK! We are just praying this works out. However it works out, that is how God wants it to be. We'll see.

Possible baby situation.. prayers needed!!!

Alright.. here's the situation. I went to my GYN today for my lovely annual. They took me back and my doc was on the phone. She said "hey mel" I said "hey leslie" hehe.. Then she asked me if I was a card carrying Indian. I said.. yes I am! She said holy crap.. yes she is. She was on the phone with an attorney that has a 17 yr old girl wanting to give her baby up for adoption. She doesn't smoke, drink, or do drugs. The birthfather has already signed his rights away. She lives at home with her parents. So, I came home talked to Jeff and we put in a call to the attorney. We are so excited. Overwhelmed too! Holy moly! Holy moly. OH.. I forgot to mention.. she is due in JULY!!!!!!! Holy moly! My doc said that if this little girl agrees for her to treat her she will deliver the baby for free. She is on Medicaid and my doc doesn't take it. But, she said for us she will deliver for free. YAY!!!! It's good to be friends with your doc before she was a doc. LOL. My head is totally spinning right now.

Please keep us in your prayers. Pray that this will work out how God intends it to. If we are ment to be the parents, or if someone else is.. please pray. Pray for the little girl. Pray for the whole situation.